But if you're looking to insert, I'd advise against it.
As a general rule, if you're putting something in your vagina you need to have a pretty solid idea of how it's going to get out again afterwards.
Googling 'how to masturbate' brings up all kinds of worrying things: 'how to masturbate with a hairbrush', for instance, or a toothbrush, deodorant can – all sorts of things.
If you're rubbing externally over your knickers or jeans, then there's probably not much to worry about.
Forget what you might have seen in porn – the best thing about masturbation is that you don't need to play to an audience or worry about what's 'normal' or 'typical' – you just need to find what works best for you.
The most obvious way to masturbate – rubbing your clit directly – is naturally bloody lovely.
Talking of pillows, I read a pretty hot erotic story once in which a lady went into great and delicious depth about how to masturbate with a pillow.
When I first started masturbating, my key concern was how to masturbate quietly.Hands-free masturbation is a great way to masturbate for longer.It's well worth trying if you, like me, are so used to a quick hand shandy that you can knock one out during an ad break and be back at the telly before you miss any of the opening credits.Have a go manually first and work out what you like best.If you're a clitoral fiend and you think the harder and more powerful the better, then grab yourself a really good bullet vibrator or a wand toy.