He doesn't anal sex—especially not if it's a one-time hookup—but he won't commit to a woman who refuses to grant him a backstage pass."I had a girlfriend who I was with for a long time and she wasn't into it," Albert says.But the more plausible explanation is that it's about accessibility—and instant gratification.Now that anal sex has been propelled higher on the mainstream menu by a hypersexualized culture and the proliferation of porn (see A few years ago, Albert says, he was hosting a party at a New York nightclub."Ideally, every girl is a disgusting pig who wants it," he says."But only with you." like anal sex, and that they're as into having it as some men."Once a guy has anal sex, he's put on a pedestal by his peers," he says. ' At first they were like, ' No, it will hurt.' Then time after time of having sex with them they finally said okay.
Phillip, an engineer in Chicago, says he and his friends request a ride in the back seat because it's a harder-to-reach goal than old-fashioned intercourse.You'll find complete galleries of all the samples above in our members section, together with much much more.With all due respect to Salt-N-Pepa, let's talk about Todd. He's a rare breed—a finance guy who lives in L. He's been dating the same ladylike woman for three years."I used to get letters from women about giving head.Those letters are now dwarfed by letters from women asking how to take it up the butt." Okay.