This does 2 major things: Even if you tell her you don’t want a relationship “code for I am dating other girls”, if you spend all of your time with her you are nonverbally communicating you want “just” her.
No matter what you say, she will begin to see you as her boyfriend, which means she will emotionally invest in you and start considering you hers.
Very few girls can play the double sex life off for long.
That doesn’t mean they can’t live with one man while sleeping with another – that happens all the time. Many girls that have left to date a new guy have circled back into my rotation after a few months of boredom with him.
If another girl enters the picture now, you will be seen as a cheater and labeled as one by her and her friends.
Avoid this by actually dating other women, pursuing your dreams, goals and hobbies, and by being otherwise unavailable.
What I learned was that lying or sneaking requires a tremendous amount of energy, and can really add some stress to your life making the multiple dating partners not near as much fun as should be.
Your natural actions will match your words and you will never give off that “sneaky”, lying or player vibe. Unless I am only dating bisexual girls (which I learned a little latter in my revelations) then I didn’t give details to girls about the other girls.It also makes you look weaker than the man that already is dating lots of women and doesn’t want to change. In our wussyfied society, weaker men tend to play the “I want to be with only you” or the “you had better not see anyone else” card WAY too soon.It removes all of the fun drama, challenge and thrill of the chase that girls love in seducing and winning a man. So when I am first meeting girls I have told them, “I am not really looking for a relationship. Right comes along.” The key to making this work is the timing.Your get togethers should be nothing more than watching a movie at your house and having a few drinks before sex, or just grabbing a quick happy hour.You must keep building sexual tension, teasing her, and being a challenge, but you don’t want to try to win her romantic feelings.