Feel things out, and try to form a bond no matter what from the beginning.
If you find that she’s not your type, then respectfully move on.
Stuff like this is way more romantic and meaningful than being forced to talk about which emoji you like using best when you text, or what your favorite bubble gum flavor is, or why Snapchat is, like, totally more fun than Instagram.
We may have sex like animals, but our modes of courtship are a lot different.
Rumor has it men are threatened by intelligent women. He’s not looking for a business partner, he’s looking for a lover, friend, partner, spouse.
This rumor is spread, for the most part, by intelligent women who are overlooked by men in favor of someone else who they deem to be dumber. As a matter of fact, intelligence isn’t really a huge factor in attraction. And therefore, his criteria is different for selecting someone than for instance your bosses.
The point here is that the old paradigm about the naïve blonde archetype being easier to game than, say, the brunette who’s a neuro-physicist is dead.
Romance is by its very nature complicated and requires some thought to really understand, so if you’re looking for something tangible that isn’t necessarily a one-night stand, it pays to examine a girl’s mind just as much as you do her body.