What the above demonstrates is neediness and we discovered neediness to be one of the biggest attraction killers when we interviewed 100 single women. Even if she replies to any of these types of messages she’s only doing it out of politeness at first before she puts a restraining order on you! Your close friends might enjoy the occasional monologue but to a girl you’ve yet to date, they will only make them think you’ve got issues and are needy.No one wants to have to scroll through dozens of words to get to a point that could have been conveyed in just a few.It will remove her anxiety about texting you the next day and means you can start comfort building a lot easier. Also using words like “beautiful”, “gorgeous”, etc.You may think you’re complimenting her but she’ll just think you call all girls “beautiful” or “gorgeous”.But if you want to make her want you and respect you more, never text back too fast. ” This should be done to an extent, because there is a flip side to the coin of taking too long to respond every time…Try to consistently text back in 10 or 15 minutes and occasionally mix it up to even an hour or so later. It’s NOT cool to make a girl wait more than six hours, let alone a day or two.Remember, hot girls receive dozens of texts a week from guys just like you. If you haven’t sparked enough emotion, she’ll more than likely turn you down.
If you want her to think you’re a desperate loser, who has nothing else to do in his day, has no social life and who’s world revolves around her, then go ahead, text her back instantly, every single time.
Even if the impact you made on her was badass, it’s important you show her you’re not just a one trick pony and keep the fun alive.
So no meaningless texts like “how are you doing”, “what’s up” and “hi”, which will contribute nothing of value to her image of you. Trying to arrange a date before you’ve made a girl excited to see you again is a fatal mistake countless guys make over and over again.
” If you really want to send her photos that’ll put a smile on her face, send photos of adorable furry animals. If you’re using text slang, improper grammar, or being lazy about checking your messages before you send them, chances are you’ve already blown it. If she never swears or uses slang language, never use it back.
She’ll appreciate those a lot more 🙂 “I had a gr8 time last nite. Read your texts before you send them and don’t use slang. Note: LOL and WTF are ok to a point, but try to avoid these in the first few texts so you can test to see if she likes using them. If she sends you a long message, reply with a long one back. No girl wants to look in the mirror and see a witch staring back, so don’t give her a bad reflection by sending 6 texts back if she only sends 3, or reply to a 20 character sentence with a 200 character text monologue.