However, I can't speak for your wife as I haven't heard her side of the story.One final point - of course you are paying for sex with the girl with whom you have it.This doesn't appear to have made you guilty, and I'm not making any judgment here, but why would you not continue to have sex with other women while keeping your marriage going if sex once a week is all you need?Your friends' suggestion that you go abroad for work would probably work well for you, but it would not really solve anything as your wife would think she was still married to you while you would be viewing it as an escape.I'm sure she would have her own views on the charity you are dispensing.You can contact Mary O’Conor anonymously by visiting email her at [email protected] write c/o 27-32 Talbot Street, Dublin 1. Mary O’Conor regrets that she is unable to answer any questions privately Mary O’Conor I really don't know what to do. I have tried to convince her to try to save the marriage but if I'm honest I think I want out more than she does at this stage. This girl gets a kick out of the fact that we are lovers and that my wife is unaware. We have sex and I give her money, but not for the sex. She's not wife material but good for a bit of fun when I need it and she is a willing participant.
If I thought they'd be OK then I would leave tomorrow.
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Presuming she wanted some advice from a journalist about where she might publicise it, I agreed to pop round one morning .
We chatted about the neighbourhood and she told me a bit about her very successful business career as an importer.