You might have to adjust your relationship to avoid the discomfort and general displeasure of society.Yes, it sucks to let bigots dictate your life, but it is difficult not to let racism ruin your evening.For example, one interracial couple in Houston said they stopped going to country music concerts together.They just got tired of the stares and comments so decided to go on dates elsewhere.Just listen to the lyrics of rap music from the likes of Kanye West, Chris Brown, We Dem Boyz, or Wiz Khalif.You will hear lyrics about “white bitches” and how successful black men will “leave your ass for a white girl.” Kanye West then went and married a white girl…Yes, women are seen as trophies and markers of success.However, if you can embrace these differences, then your romance can flourish. Fetish assumes that you are turned on by certain characteristics or things, such as people with a fetish for pantyhose or scat or whatever. It is a bit difficult to define the difference between a fetish and attraction.
Not fear about the life he may have to live, but her fear that he may not come home . Over the past three years I’ve seen explanation after explanation and still people deny racism. I don’t give them the benefit of the doubt anymore. It is toxic to both you and your partner, but especially to your children. I hope this woman’s racism is challenged before she does more harm to her family.Interracial couples are going to need to challenge the racism in their relationships. If you try to ignore all of these differences and say that “race doesn’t matter”, then you are setting yourself up for a big shock.How can you tell when it is a fetish and not just attraction?A fetish is purely sexual and the person will be attracted to ALL people of that race/appearance regardless of the person.