I couldn't treat you like any other guy when the reality is,your genitals are like any other female.That being said,you may feel very male and that will progressively become an even stronger identity the more male hormone's you take,but until you remove your breasts and "deal with" your female genitalia,straight women will see you as female.Okay, You won't end up alone just because you are transgender.It limits your options considerably, but if you have other things to offer, you'll be fine.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Sorry, but that's going to be the case somewhere between 99 and 100% of the time, as I'm sure you've experienced.I am straight and enjoy women, but I'm sick of people questioning their sexuality after being with me. I don't want to be decietful and lie about my past, but I don't want to turn people away either. The way your OP is worded sounds like you don't tell them until you're well in to seeing them? And it isn't just your past, it's your present and your future.Otherwise, how could you say you've been turned down "many times by girls after they learn I don't possess typical male anatomy."............ You know better than I do how limited the options are for constructing something analogous to the male anatomy. Until you make the full transition you have to expect it to be very challenging, POF may not be the best dating site for you.You should expect to be treated as though you are a female who took male hormones.You will indeed have a hard time finding a straight woman.