I am grateful to have such loyal readers who contribute great questions to me.But I have a confession to make: I don’t answer every question that comes into my inbox.The norm of so many of my relationships has been doing 80 percent of the work and taking 80 percent of the initiative in the bedroom.I can't explain how refreshing it is when it feels like it's 50-50." Greg G."Regardless of what you've heard, realize that guys can indeed be 'just friends' with other girls. Some think there's no such thing as a platonic relationship with another girleither one or the other of you wants to hook up.If you've developed an inside joke, that's for sure a good thing. It's sexy." Andrew S."One hard fact people have to come to terms with is that you and your significant other aren't the last people you'll ever both be attracted to.
If a guy knows you're interested there's a big chance he'll become interested too." Josh F"Don't get me wrongconfidence is sexy, and insecurity is certainly a turnoff, but so is a chick that constantly talks about how pretty she is or how much attention she gets from guys.
Your guy wants sex to be great for the both of you, and it's very helpful to talk about things (what works for you, what doesn't).
Having a sense of humor about it can also make it easier and more fruitful. Make sure to be constructive and instructive." Dan T."When you complain to a guy about something, know that he's probably thinking about how to fix that problem.
Or what it means when he didn’t text back right away. Here’s a curriculum of common situations (and what to do about them) to check out: Does He Want to Date Me Or Not?
Or why a guy was interested one minute, then lost interest seemingly for no reason. , Guy Won’t Call You His Girlfriend, Boyfriend Won’t Update Relationship Status on Facebook or Myspace, Am I Wasting My Time?