NEVER SETTLE Health- LETS BE REAL- In the normal way of life with no traumatic events an older person will die sooner than the younger due to simple degenerative health conditions. That being acknowledged you have to realize that if you are dating somebody 20 years your senior then when you are 60 they will be 80 if they are still around.
Therefore it is KEY in dating an older man that he is willing to make healthy lifestyle choices to make sure he is in good health as he ages to be less of a burden to you. It is selfish if the older person that you are dating is not willing to work out and stay in top shape for you.
If something as simple as changing which city you live in locally is going to cause an issue where the guy is unwilling to change, and if he isn’t willing to give up a pet to be with you …that really somebody you want to be with?
Men like to feel needed and they want to be the supporter and women like to be taken care of.
That is a beautiful thing and hats off to the man for establishing his life like that.
But what if you want to live in a loft in a big city and he wants nothing to do with that idea.
Many times when dating somebody older they expect you to drop your life and be picked up and dropped into their life they have set up.
This may be a dream for some women…get a man with a great job and a car and a boat and a house with land and a dog and everything is move-in ready.