If someone texts you and you don’t reply, it will just seem like you are ignoring them and they will stop texting you.Remember that it only takes a few seconds to see that you have a message, and it only takes a few minutes to reply!You show that you are confident because you aren’t waiting for them to boost your ego with kind words. Instead of waiting for him to make you feel special, make him feel confident with a great compliment. You’re inquiring because you would like to see him again and that is the confidence he needs to move the relationship forward. Hopefully your friends will paint you in a great light and impress this man the way he would want his friends to impress you.When you can praise a man’s good qualities he is appreciative. Make it appoint to recognize the man you’re dating for the little things that he does. Tell him that he’s smart, kind, caring, a great date and wonderful to be around. Taking control of the situation saves you both time. If a man doesn’t want to see you again but lacks the nerve to tell you then these questions are a great way to bring his intentions to light. While men do sometimes see this as a clear sign of wanting commitment its better to have a great time together than worry about what he will think of your intentions. If you ask a man straight out, And you don’t, its clear he lied. Don’t be afraid to ask bold questions because you fear being rejected. I find that we say so much yet very little about how we truly feel. There are however no guidelines or rules when it comes to relationships other than they take work. The most important rule is to be patient, when the right person comes along you may not need any advice at all but if you do I hope this was helpful. You want to know as soon as possible if this man is serious in pursuing you, so ask. There comes a time when we all grapple with those tough topics. You can make it as easy as need be without seeming obvious. Your only job is to welcome the interaction by being inviting and light-hearted.Some people might say, well, what does it matter who talks to who? This is advice taken from the infamous self-help book ‘The Rules’ and I believe that it works.
I know it sounds strict and old-fashioned but again, human emotion is powerful. Keep in mind that men are as nervous when dating as women are. Too often women wait until they’re hurt to share their feelings. If you aren’t happy with his behavior don’t see him.
If you have gone on one date with someone, avoid instantly friending them on Facebook and Twitter.
It can seem a little pushy and presumptuous, and it may result in an awkward de-friending if you don’t meet up again.
Join my private Facebook Community for FREE Handsome, charming, smart, kind and giving? When you meet a man who seems like the man you’ve been waiting for your whole life, instead of embracing the moment we sometimes get scared and nervous.
This is normal but it can be a huge set back in the relationship.