Greenberg confirms what many of us already know: More than likely, your crush is into you if they carry on the conversation and respond without too much of a lag time. (But if you're already there, here's how to kick the conversation up a notch.)While we're arguably more in control of and confident about our sexuality than ever, there's still so much we don't know about female arousal.So this month, we're exploring everything you want and need to know about how women get turned on now.This way, you can start establishing a stronger emotional connection and find out all the important things you have in common."Just worked out, ready to hit the showers!"Why it works: A post-workout text is a classic way to get your crush thinking about you in some steamier situations.What was once a casual chat about making plans to go thrifting, for example, becomes a cutesy request for your crush's time, and a face they can't refuse.Giving them something nice to look at certainly won't hurt your chances of landing a date."Some friends and I are grabbing drinks later!
"Why it works: Not only does this let your crush know that you're thinking about them and enjoy spending time with them, but it also gives them an exciting jolt at the anticipation of meeting up again in person (preferably sometime soon).
We all know texting into the wee hours of the morning can get pretty open — take a chance and ask your crush to spill.
It gives them a way to play the shy card and give in to telling you how badly they want you without feeling too forward (hey, you asked).
Besides, if they opt for a secret that doesn't lean sexually, that still breeds intimacy."You know you miss me."Why it works: If you're feeling pretty solid about where you stand with your cutie in question, this message has just the right amount of bordering-on-arrogant spunk to make them blush.
Confidence is attractive — if you're sure of yourself, they will be, too. "My friends won't stop talking about how cute you are."Why it works: There's a bit of subtle flattery in dropping that your friends know about them, that they've seen photos, and that they might just approve. Don't underestimate the power of injecting some sarcasm into your flirting.