So instead, try keeping it simple, and aim for the funny bone in your headline and self description.
Keep in mind these examples work best for traditional dating websites.
But they didn't get enough unsolicited inbound to draw conclusions, unsurprisingly). Also interesting is that when either username was shown alongside his picture on Photofeeler, he scored less than half as attractive when compared to just the photo, with no dating username at all.
Perhaps the nameless photo scored twice as high on Photofeeler, because it was twice as big on the scoring page, when compared to showing it with a username.
Or more likely, a picture on a dating profile is perceived by women as inherently lower status when compared to the same picture by itself.
Matthew Valentines is an online dating concierge, and executive director at Personal Dating Assistants.
(note, we also tried this test with a few less attractive guys. Most notable is the clever username encouraged almost twice as many profile views & likes on match.com, when compared to the Generic username.If you're worried that an otherwise great username sounds too outrageous, or too different from who you really are, try it out on your profile for a test run, and see how women respond. A bit of facial hair never hurts, and the stylish scarf adds a touch panache. (Joe's a stock photo, in case you were wondering)I uploaded Joe's picture to a photo scoring website called photofeeler.If it really feels cringe inducing, change it later. The stress of not having a cool name you're totally in love with just might motivate your creative energies faster than if you sit on the sidelines, waiting for that perfect username to pop into your head. It's a tool my company uses sometimes, when we can't agree on which photo looks best for one of our members.Each element working in sync, will support the other, together creating your overall Attractive Archetype. While rich language and outrageous words usually word best for Po F & Okcupid usernames, it's not always the right play. The first time I used their site was when they launched, way back in 1995!For example, let's say the funniest username for Po F you've got is Photoshop Cowboy. But when it's actually on your profile, next to your lead dating photo, it might not jive at all. Particularly on a more serious or conservative dating site, like Christian Mingle, or On these platforms, I find that less outrageous dating site usernames play better to these types of women. Try a kinder, more relationshipy sounding username. These days, Match has settled into their place as the best platform for folks over 30 who are looking for serious relationships, but younger men can also find success on the site. So it's fairly important to choose a good name for this site, to tie together your overall profile.